Monday, June 12, 2017

Goodbye/Progress Photos.. ONE YEAR!!

My mission, my whys and reasons for coaching and sharing my truths on social media are two fold... 

First, I want to encourage everyone, especially women and moms, to not lose themselves in careers or parenthood but to pursue care and passions that helps them to be a better version of themselves.  Then, they can give the best version of themselves to their world and to their children.  

I especially enjoy doing this through wellness, nutrition and fitness so the odds are in their favor to be around as long as possible demonstrating healthy habits for all the influential minds in their lives! 

I will forever be grateful in this last year, one of the most challenging but wonderful years of my life, that I had personal encouragement through wellness challenge groups and Beachbody.  It may not be a route through nutrition or fitness for you at this time or ever, but I'll always cheer you on to find your route!   


Our challengers in June took their goodbye/progress photos today and are hiding their scales.  I didn't take half of these with any intention of EVER sharing them... but here I am, sharing a YEAR's worth of progress photos to say if you'd like to make a change, YOU COULD DO THIS!!!!   There was 6 months that were full of tons of ups and downs and almost quitting and restarting 10x... And over 6 months of obsessing over scale numbers... I've deeply ingrained now it is not totally about the scale but my why's, the energy, the personal development and challenges, the role-modeling for friends/family/children, my peace in the now and my health in the future... The below pics had scale numbers that ranged 15 lbs... And now I'm closer to the starting number than the lowest number but most confident in HOW I FEEL, what I've learned, and the tone I see. Many of us feel these are all things we need to learn on our own, but they aren't!  I couldn't have done it without others and I'm here to help ease any similar obsessions and anxiety like I had!!  And I just want to help encourage with daily motivations to overcome the resistance we feel.  



A favorite quote from a current book I'm reading has pretty much summed up what I'm learning and working on daily.   From Resisting Happiness by Matthew Kelly:   "Resistance hates ordinary, everyday actions.  Resistance likes to distract us, keeps us thinking about things we can do nothing about.  People tend not to put exercise, prayer and church, spending time with their spouse and children, and many other important "ordinary" things on their schedules.  As a result these things often get neglected and pushed aside.  

 THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS ARE ALMOST NEVER URGENT.  
THAT'S WHY IT'S ESSENTIAL WE SCHEDULE THEM. "    




Mid June 2016:  (All of these are core flexed) 





Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Dearest Declan, You're 4 Years Old!



Dearest Declan, You're 4 Years Old!

You are celebrating in Michigan today with Grandma Sue and Grandpa Tim and Great Grandpa Pete and Elaine!!!  You were very sad and telling Daddy you didn't want a birthday party because you weren't going to get a remote control car like you saw at Sandy Park.  But you did!  And you had the best early party via videos I saw!  Auntie B and I are here in MN just talking about the wonderful 4 years you have graced us with!!    

You are so inquisitive and curious and we love your never ending questions. Your imagination and play (albeit a tv combo of Pokemon, Paw Patrol, Octonauts and Puppy/Baby) take you on adventures I am so blessed to witness.  Your best friends are Charles & Finnegan but you three love taking the younger boys on your journey's.  I love journaling with you at supper and hearing your versions and the way you describe things! 

You are an amazing big brother.  I love when you talk to him and tell him what we are doing and how fun it will be.. or how you tell him the rules...  "Mom is just telling you the rule, and it is the rule so just listen..."     "Mom will win" you have said a few times with him!   (But news flash... Evan is winning way more than you did.... ) 

But on that note, you are a Momma's boy for sure!  You definitely don't care for having us leave and having babysitters.... or even Auntie B... you just go hang out in your room alone if you want to express that point!  But here is hoping a summer of some new experiences (swim lessons and VBS) and a new year help you get used to other people besides me.

I thank God everyday for making me your mom!  We love you through and through!!

Mom

P.S. Even though you were in a solid no pic phase for half of your three year old life, here are a few favs: